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    3 months ago

    After spending ten minutes on the toilet pondering, I think „growing facial hair“ is the best counter-example I can come up with.

    Or I just don‘t know enough women who like growing facial hair.

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        2 months ago

        Yeah, but the question isn’t whether you like beards, it’s whether you like growing your own beard, respect the game.

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      That’s simple. Growing facial hair isn’t cool, it’s facial hair itself that’s cool.
      Someone with a big walrusy Wilford Brimly moustache is cooler than someone who’s working on growing a moustache.

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        2 months ago

        Well groomed, long hair, like well-maintained, thick, stretched earlobes, communicate patience and the ability to finesse your way through difficult, potentially uncomfortable situations in service of a larger, long term goal. Unfortunately, you can be very patient at becoming an asshole as well as becoming a decent, well rounded person. Facial hair doesn’t make you cool. Being a cool person makes you cool.

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    2 months ago

    My absolute favourite thing is women doing things that “only men do.”

    (P.S. am a woman)

  • Guaragaito (he/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    Is there literally anything only men like?

    There are male biased things, ie. gaming, woodworking, wingsuiting, cimbing etc.

    but are there any things literally only males like?

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      3 months ago

      there’s girls who like trains, i’ve met them! reckon sometimes they’re less vocal bc mansplaining is upsettingly common in any male dominated hobby :/

  • 𞋴𝛂𝛋𝛆@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Define only men like
    Are we talking hobby scope or like alpha extroverted abusively insecure narcissistic misogynists with very small penis… rule

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      3 months ago

      having a small penis doesn’t make anyone a bad person, all your other terms are fair and objectively bad, but how do you bot realize you are potentially hurting perfectly decent people with the last one? I know its a widespread practice and that and I am not really mad about it, but it still amazes me how the insult is still used. If someone is an abusive, narcissistic misogynist then that’s bad enough, don’t gotta go there.

      Think about your harmless bros with insecurity issues over this thing that doesn’t make them a lesser person.

      End rant, again not mad at you just a thought.

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    3 months ago

    Look, idk about you, but if you haven’t played soldiers and tanks with a bunch of grown ass men, get yourself to a WH40k group and learn what cool is.