I have my own mollysocket and ntfy, both on tailscale domains with funnel. You can restrict your mollysocket to only your ID.

What makes Sunup different from ntfy? Is it better?

Molly-FOSS is awesome and it now has UnifiedPush support built-in!

Get it with Obtainium

This post explains it, but it is still too complicated for me to figure out: https://doc.dovecot.org/2.4.0/installation/upgrade/2.3-to-2.4.html

I had dovecot running unencrypted IMAP via Tailscale VPN, but with dovecot version 2.4.0 it did not accept my configuration anymore. can you share an easy example?
I was thinking of switching to mailcow so i do not have to configure dovecot myself…

Is it 13ft or ladder ?

The manual istall now seems too cluttered for me, aswell as the caddy webserver configuration. The AIO probably has an more up to date configuration which is vetted by the community.

I will try to configure the AIO version how i like it, but still apply what i have learned connecting tailscale (https://github.com/nextcloud/all-in-one/discussions/5439)

@BakedCatboy@lemmy.ml your example helped clarify the network and service linking, thank you.